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I've had a lot of comments about the post below this one.
And I've thought about it why my news is so heart-breaking.
It's true, I put everything I had into my marriage and I'm currently putting everything
I can back into fixing it.
But let's get this straight. When I started full-time writing on this blog last September,
(I know it's almost been a year) I was going through a tough time.
More hard times followed.
Here is my conclusion.
I chose to look for the good and praise all great moments that were happening
right along with all the bad ones.
The good moments are what I wrote about.
And that's exactly what I'm going to continue writing about.
I come here to write about joy and you come here to read about it.
So let's continue it because joy has healed me before,
and it will heal me again no matter what I face in the future.
I know that it can also heal you.
There is light in every dark situation.
I promise.
I was also surprised to hear about your marriage. I think you have great strength and courage to find joy every day.
ReplyDeleteWay to go Lis. I think that the good moments are what we truly need to remember and focus on. Yes bad happens, and we don't need to hide it, but we also don't need to focus on it. Lately I've been reminding myself of this, not to ignore bad things, but to just not let them overtake all the good.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I always tell my family and friends who are going through a tough or difficult times is - "a positive outlook on things will never let you day - guaranteed." :)
ReplyDeleteSo inevitably, I love the fact that you are always seeking the good moments, even when there are sometimes bad ones.
theirs a difference in finding joy in situations and making things seem like something their not.
ReplyDeleteHi Lisa -
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear about your marriage. I'm glad that this blog has helped you focus on the joy in your life.
While it's not really any of my business, I noticed you had 235 followers on your blog, and who knows how many more read it as well. I would encourage you to write more about your separation in hopes that you can help someone else who may be going through the same thing. You, of course, don't have to give details, but maybe instead share ways you have coped or are coping with it.
There's no doubt your experiences will help at least one of your readers, and, really, what's more joyous than that?