Stop and smell the roses

I've been feeling burned out lately. So it was no surprise that my nasty ear infection has not gone away. So instead of reading for class or trying to catch up on extra work, I have spent my quiet time reading blogs that I love but haven't read in ages and listening to new favorite songs. It's moments like this that I remember I need to recharge,

I have been trying to remind myself that I need to put me first. It's not as easy as it sounds. A full time job, a sweet husband to care for, meals to plan, family to call-- I'm grateful for all of these things, but I struggle to find this thing called "work-life-family-balance."

Today when I woke up at the crack of 3 AM (which never happens) and was feeling awful, I decided it was a day to heal. I stayed home in comfy pjs all day, calmly and happily remembered why I love my job and designed some pretty fun pieces. I didn't stress over not cooking dinner, went out for a peaceful walk and walked around the Philadelphia Free Library (it was Kevin's first time).

No, the ear infection has not gone away (sigh), my coughs and sniffles haven't stopped (curse) but my heart is happy and I'm in a good place again.

Stop and smell the roses.

Moral of the story: It's always best to take care of yourself first because you'll then be able to help so much more.

True story. I feel I'm now ready to take on the world again. I need to get it in my head to not feel guilty about taking care of me. I'll repeat that just for me: I need to not feel guilty about taking care of me. I can help others when I am healthier and happier when I take care of myself. Same applies to you.

Stop and smell the roses. Otherwise, they'll be gone way too soon and you will have missed them.

xoxo